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Lesbian Erotic BooksFirst Time Lesbian SexTips for your first lesbian sexual experience There’s a lot wrapped up in your first time lesbian sexual experience. Whether it’s your first time having sex at all, or your first time having sex with another woman, being nervous is normal. There’s so much cultural hype about “your first time” and “losing your virginity.” One thing is true, you never do forget your first time. Here’s some tips to get you through your first time lesbian sexual experience. 1. Get to know your own body. Before you can even think about turning someone else on, it’s good to know what excites you. Yes, I’m talking about masturbation. Spend some time one-on-one with yourself. As you touch yourself and find the places that feel good, you’ll know where to touch her. 2. Go sober. You want to remember your first lesbian sex. Sometimes alcohol or drugs can lower your inhibitions and make the first move easier, but you’re not as likely to do or say something regrettable if you’re sober. 3. Go Safe. Yes, lesbians need to worry about sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and AIDS. Read up on lesbian safer sex and be prepared to bring the topic up with your partner. Unfortunately, safe sex is still not talked about very often in the lesbian community. 4. Fantasize. It all begins with fantasy. If you’re ready to sleep with another woman, you must have thought about it. What are those thoughts? Does she throw you down on the bed and have her way with you? Or do you go skinny dipping in your backyard pool? There’s a saying, you must imagine it before you can do it. 5. Leave the lesbian toys in the drawer. There will be plenty of time to learn about and play with sex toys. Let your first time be simple flesh-on-flesh love. 6. Relax. Take your time. Touch her all over. Don’t got straight for her crotch. Undress her slowly, appreciating every newly exposed piece of flesh. Kiss her elbows. Touch her breasts. Blow softly in her ear. Kiss her neck. Caress her belly, her inner thighs. Kiss behind her knees. Smell under her arms. Massage her buttocks. Slowly suck on her fingers. Get naked and lay your body on top of hers. There’s so much erotic fun you can have before you ever even touch her pubic area. Enjoy. 7. Communicate. Ask her what she wants. Ask her if what you’re doing feels good. Tell her where you want to be touched. Communication is key to any good sexual relationship. If she’s doing something you like, moan or purr to let her know that feels good. 8. Have realistic expectations. Your first time with a lover should be about getting to know her body, getting to know how to turn her on and learning what your chemistry is. Orgasm may or may not happen the first time. That’s okay. The point is to get physical, get close, express your feelings of love or desire. Striptease for lesbiansStriptease may not be the first thing you think of when trying to impress the girl in your life, or simply making a change to a more routine sex life, but it can be rewarding and fun for both of you. There are so many possible elements to it and the ‘rules’ for striptease are flexible, which means you can completely tailor it to what you and your partner are into. It can always be tailored to your sexual interests, meaning it will never be dull! The first thing you’ll notice if you are the one who is going to be doing the strip, is that you’ll probably enjoy it more than you thought you would. Everyone including lesbians has an exhibitionist in them, and you’re sure to get more in touch with this side of you once things start taking off – so to speak!. Not only can you become more in touch with the hidden parts of your personality, but you’ll find that your self-esteem and confidence can improve.By showing off and being appreciated by your partner, you’ll feel special and want to do more – it’s one of those wonderful circles that is by no means vicious at all! If you’ve never tried lesbian striptease before, you may wish to take things gently. Don’t worry too much about heading off to the fancy dress shop to get a huge frilly burlesque outfit – or a PVC uniform that, you might think, wouldn’t make anyone feel sexy! Simply take a look in your wardrobe and find the outfit she has always said she likes seeing you in. It could be a nice top, some funky jeans or a suit – just remember how good she said you looked in it. Once you’re lesbian outfit is decided upon, check your grooming. You’re going to need to feel confident, so make sure all your bits and pieces are done. De-fuzz wherever you need to, but don’t do anything beyond your normal routine – otherwise it can look contrived. Have a long bath, moisturise and make sure you feel 100% about the way you look. Next up, get the timing and location are right. Perhaps wait until she comes home after work, settle her down with a drink and let her relax a little – and then get to it. She’ll be thinking her luck is in already when she sees how gorgeous you look, so things are already set. You don’t necessarily need music – that’s up to you, and you might just start with the dance. Tease her and keep to the first golden rule – no touching! No matter how hot you both get, neither of you should touch until the end. Simply start by doing a slow dance in front of her and gradually removing the first layer of clothing. Unbutton items slowly, unzip even slower and – the second golden rule – keep eye contact at all times. Your eyes are your secret weapon! Tease her gently by throwing items in her face or on her lap and then when you get to the grand finale of removing your bra and knickers, turn and angle your body seductively to keep the illusion going. It’s all about slow, sexy and sultry moves. Try to make it last as long as possible and then once you’re ready, she’ll be more than ready for you! Role play for lesbiansWhen anyone mentions role play, it’s quite often that bizarre and somewhat scary thoughts are conjured up. You picture yourself dressed up as a doctor about to administer an enema, or perhaps scouring the charity shops for weeks on end looking for something that resembles a seventies moth-eaten French maids outfit. Thankfully, times have moved on somewhat and you don’t have to emulate dodgy eighties porn to give role play a try. The thing with role play – it’s a fantasy. Everything about it is made up and you don’t have to worry too much about what you or your partner find arousing. If you find it easy to discuss that you might fancy a spot of role-play, then you’re unlikely to have any problems as you undoubtedly have an open and respectful relationship which means you are free to discuss your fantasies. You need to talk about the roles that one or both of you would like to play and then set about fulfilling this fantasy. Thankfully, the fact that it’s a fantasy means you can push some boundaries. Try not to pick roles that too closely resemble the regular sex roles you and your partner play out. As much as you can, be experimental, outlandish and above all, imaginative – this is a safe arena for you to express yourself sexually. Fantasy sexual role play can be very exposing, which makes it both exciting and a somewhat daunting. Laying down ground rules is essential to creating a space that means you both feel safe and happy. Some of these rules follow common sense and common courtesy, but in the confines of a loving relationship, you will come to establish rules that work for both of you. Anyone can stop a scene at any time. Fantasy sexual role play can be intense, and it can bring up feelings that may be surprising. It’s important to remember that it’s a game, and the point is to have fun, and if either person isn’t feeling okay at any point they need to be able to stop everything and have their needs attended to. Here are some questions to consider regarding ground rules and boundaries for fantasy sexual role play: What kind of sex do you want to have? Are there some things you don’t want to do in a role play, or other things you would only want to do when dressed up as someone else? How can you let your partner know if things aren’t going okay or if you need to take a break. Work out a sign or word that you can use to check in with each other. How far are you willing to take the role play? Are you comfortable letting it flow without a set ending, or do you want to agree beforehand on how the scene will finish up? If you’re feeling nervous or awkward with the idea of fantasy role play, but you’d like to try it, what do you need to feel more comfortable? Can you ask your partner for what you need? If these questions make you anxious at all, or you feel like you can’t talk to your partner about these issues, fantasy role play may not be right for you at this time. Getting to be someone else for a few hours, and have sex as these other people, can be an exciting experience, but in the end you need to feel good about the person you’re with after the clothes and fake moustaches come off. Remember, it’s a fantasy. Try not to feel embarrassed or ashamed of the roles you want to explore. Wanting to play a bank robber doesn’t mean you are one (or want to be one in real life). Feel the release by leaving reality at the door and see where it takes you – you may surprise your partner, and yourself.
The Lesbian sex positions workoutIt’s all too easy to become complacent in a relationship. Yes it’s all rather wonderful when you first meet – you’re having sex everywhere possible in every which way known to womankind, but we all know, after a while, things can get a bit formulaic. Not only that, but you can start getting too comfortable, putting on a few pounds, eating more together and doing less exercise. So with that in mind, spurred on by a little playful worry over whether she’s going to run off with the girl in the corner shop, why not combine sex and exercise? It may sound like a horrific experience – who would want to shag whilst on a treadmill anyway? That’s not exactly what we’re thinking. You can get hot and sweaty for all the right reasons and get your metabolism going while spicing up your lesbian sex life. It certainly beats running up the dual carriageway for half an hour in the rain. So here are some ideas to get you started. Forget missionary, and definitely forget about a quick lazy shag before you nod off in front of the telly. This should get your heart beat racing.
Not only will using a strap on leave your hands free to explore other gorgeous parts of her body, but you’ll be getting a good workout at the time. Clenching your buttocks will also help those pelvic floor muscles and you’ll be able to get more of a hold on things! Grip harder, fuck harder – that’s the basic idea here. If you’re up for it, do it standing up and hold her with her legs wrapped around you. If you’re not sure at first, use the wall as support – we don’t want any injuries! Do it quickly There’s nothing like some time constraint to get things moving. Allow yourself a short amount of time to make her orgasm. Look at it as a target. You’ll find yourself really going for it, whether you are finger fucking her or using a strap-on or dildo.
Your endorphins are sure to be pumping, so this is the best time to really get it on. If you include lesbian sex as part of your work-out, you’re sure to burn more calories and have more fun. Straight after a few circuits may be a bit sweaty, but nothing compared to how you’ll be once you have a really good session – try incorporating push-ups as you fuck her with a strap on!
Double ended dildos can be a little complicated, but if you are both using one instead of a strap on, your both going to get a work out. It may not be the best cardio set, but you’ll find that your both working those all-important pelvic floor muscles – perfect for enhancing your orgasm and keeping that tummy in!
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